Things about love..

People always ask me why i dun freaking go get a girlfriend when practically each and everyone of my friends have a so called "dear", "sweetie pums" and all the "cute" names you can practically think of.
I sometimes also find myself thinking, why indeed?

Before we delve deeper into this topic, lets see why most teenagers today get into BGRs(boy girl relationship).
From what i have seen and ahem, studied, i have found among few reasons that i think is the main factor that drives teenagers into getting themselves that special some one.

For fun, also can be categorised as just for the sake of getting one bf/gf type.
No special reason, they just want to try the feel of having a bf/gf and to enjoy it. These type of people will sometimes ask for something more like sex. When they get bored, then you're out of the window. No long term meaning. The most typical kind you can find.

Influence + no self control type
The sight of seeing their friends or strangers dating makes them go haywire. Can be easily influenced by questions such as "Oh man, you're so outdated because u have no bf/gf" plus they could not control themselves when facing love problems thus making them look like they're so desperate for BGR just so they can keep p with the crowd. No long term meaning either.

3. The sex maniac type
The most dangerous type. The number one reason of having BGR is to experience as many sex with different people.

4. The TRUE LOVE finders
The sweetest and heart warming BGR of all. Do not care bout looks and hold strongly to the quote "til death do us part". Even when their partner is old as a hag, they'll still love him/her.

Well after seeing the most typical type, of BGRs, i would certainly do not want to become the first three group of people because it would seem so meaningless to ennter a BGR like that.
Besides, i'm still young- hey, 17 is young ok!- so its not yet the time for me yet because i could not bear the responsibilty of looking after another one when my main job is the score well and get a good foundation in life.
Plus, for those who think BRG are more important than studies, well, you can't expect your dear to eat cucumbers when you enter the working life and you can't expect to rely on parents forever right?


On the other side, i also do not want to go head banging into BGR, with no directions of what kind of girls i want.
Be sure of what kind of girl you want, get to know her well and if you think that she's the one, then only go for it. That's my thinking, not see one, chase one.

Well on other topics besides this, next Monday is my SPM result announcement day and i'm way over panicked because of the high expectations on me. SPM could really change your life's course. So, pray for me.
Besides that, life's pretty much fine. Just that working 9 hours a day could really take a toll on you. Make you appreciate studies more :P


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